Now keep in mind this is coming from a lad who is also into men and apparently women. The claim goes on to claim that he and his boyfriend suffer because they are forced to "pass as straight" and have "managed to do so". Perhaps the best part was the claim that because he is a masculine presenting male -- he would allegedly have a harder struggle finding work. There are times I wish I made things like this up --- but this is very very real. Cleary is a former contestant on The Bi Life .. a British reality show.